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Myth Busters
Are Christians Party Poopers?
By Roger Pryor, Heartland Community Church

Church people are often perceived as "no fun." We’ve heard people say, "He used to be fun until they got religion." Church people can be boring. Rather than living an off-road adventure of exhilaration and risk, they settle for the residential street of boredom and redundancy.

Sadly, pre-Christians look at many church people and figure God is a party pooper God—dull, boring, unengaged with life, asleep at the wheel, and doing circles in cul-de-sacs for cheap thrills. But that is not the case! One man describes God as "wild, dangerous, unfettered, and free." God is living out his adventure. He’s a God of risks and thrill seeking.

He could have created and programmed robots to do His will, but instead God created people with the freedom to choose—even the freedom to reject Him. At great risk, God didn’t make Adam and Eve obey Him, but allowed their choices to rewrite and shape all of human history.

All of history to this day has been about God’s adventure of pursuing a relationship with us—a relationship that we messed up. The Bible is packed full of adventure stories where God shows up to rescue his people. He loves to come through for us. He wants relationship and to share the adventure with each of us.

When God invaded earth in the person of Jesus, He certainly didn’t live a passive life of boredom. Was it always fun and easy? No. But it was a life of adventure, risk, and passion to rescue people who were spiritually lost. In turn, he challenged his followers to stretch their limits and join him on an adventure of extreme faith.

In Mark 8:35 Jesus said, "If you try to keep your life for yourself, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will find true life."

Jesus is saying if you play it safe, keep life for yourself, you’ll miss out on all the life God has for you. But if you will take some big time spiritual risks and give up your life for Jesus’ sake, you’ll find true life—a life of extreme adventure, a ride together with Him. It may not always be fun or easy, but here are three things the Christian life can be for you:

1. A Great Adventure

Life is not a problem to be solved; it is an adventure to be lived. God has wired us for adventure, not necessarily for fun. Adventure requires something of us, puts us to the test. Life is not made for boredom but for adventure. One day, Jesus asked Simon Peter to go fishing. A professional fisherman, Peter was reluctant because he had caught nothing the night before. Besides, Jesus was a carpenter, not an angler. When he dropped his nets, the catch was so large the nets began to tear and boat began to sink. Luke 5:9-11says, For he was awestruck by the size of their catch, as were the others with him. His partners, James and John, the sons of Zebedee, were also amazed. Jesus replied to Simon, "Don't be afraid! From now on you'll be fishing for people!" And as soon as they landed, they left everything and followed Jesus.

Jesus was offering these fishermen the adventure of a lifetime. They would be fishing for people—netting out people for eternity. Ultimately, it was a high stakes drama that cost Jesus his life and later it cost his disciples theirs as well. Imagine an untrained, uneducated group of guys who walk away from their greatest catch of fish and find a life worth living—a life of casting nets toward people who are far from God and offering them a relationship and the adventure of a lifetime with God.

The famous English sculptor Henry Moore at the age of 80 was asked about the secret of life. Moore smiled and answered: "The secret of life is to have a task, something you do your entire life, something you bring everything to, every minute of the day for your whole life. And the most important thing is: It must be something you cannot possibly do."

God has set us on earth with an incredible mission that we can’t possible do on our own. That’s why God asks us to join Him in netting out people for God. What could be more thrilling than impacting another person for eternity? God has made us for a great adventure, not for getting lost in the cul-de-sacs of life.

2. The Christian life is not always fun or easy—but for sure, it’s a risk-taking climb. Adventure eventually leads to risk. Risk always stretches the limits to what we’re comfortable with. So we dump our dreams because we aren’t willing to risk or face our fears. After the great catch of fish by Peter, he was awestruck and afraid. He could have stayed paralyzed in his fears, but he and the others signed on for the adventure of following Jesus. What a huge risk!

It was at Vickery Park in Dallas that I made my first death-defying leap from the high board. Remember when you climbed up the ladder of the high dive and walked out on the board? Didn’t it seem like a mile high? For several days, I made the climb, only to backtrack down the steps because I was afraid—okay I was a coward. The risk was too great. So I’d slink down to the safety of the shallow end. This went on for days until I finally took the big leap.

That’s how it is for Christ followers. We sign on for the greatest adventure in history that will lead us to heaven—we climb the steps with the intention of making a splash for God—only to freeze on the board. So we back off the high dive with God, climb down and slink into the shallow end of boredom and non-adventure. No wonder our spiritual lives are dry; life has no sense of urgency; our existence is redundant and boring; God seems distant and out of touch.

But it’s on the high dive where our hearts beat fast and our knuckles turn white; where our prayers really matter; where if God doesn’t show up we’re headed for a belly flop. One author says, "God rigged the world in such a way that it only works when we embrace risk as the theme of our lives, which is to say, only when we live by faith."

3. The Christian life is not always fun or easy—but it’s full of eternal challenges. Life with too much comfort and not enough challenge is dangerous. Researchers at the University of California at Berkley did an experiment where they introduced an amoeba into a perfectly stress-free environment; ideal temperature; and constant food supply. In essence, they removed everything that might give amoebas ulcers, high blood pressure or migraines. Yet, oddly enough, it died. Apparently, there is something about all living creatures, even amoebas that demands challenge and change. Otherwise, comfort without challenge will kill us.

God is throwing you some eternal challenges your way. He wants to move you from being a casual observer to someone with skin in the game. He wants you to open your heart to taking a dive off the high dive and making a splash for Him. So let me close with two dangerous, risky prayers that are far from shallow-end praying.

The first prayer is for those of you who are not yet Christ followers, but are interested in God with reservations. Let me challenge you to pray this high dive prayer: "God, show me who you are."

Jeremiah 29:13 says, If you look for me in earnest, you will find me when you seek me.

Are you open to praying "God, show me who you are?" "God, my heart would be open to you if you would show up. I’m going to start diligently looking for you. Show me who you are."

For those of you who are Christ followers, here’s your high dive risky prayer: "God, use me like you’ve never used me before. God I want to net out people for you. Use me to touch one more person so they won’t be the same again. God take me out of the shallow end and put me on the high dive and use me in amazing ways to make a splash in this world."

Every man dies, not every man really lives. Real living begins when we join the adventure by climbing on the high dive and saying to God—"Here I am; I surrender my life to the use of your plan."