Launching a Winning Attitude—Getting
into Orbit
By Ron Donhardt
In 1811, a distant relative of mine
made flight history. Albrecht Ludwig Berblinger, by profession a
tailor in Ulm, Germany, constructed "kite wings" out of
cloth and tried to glide from the high side of the Danube River to
the other side. He had apparently "flown" before, but this
was the first time he tried it over the river. Even though it was in
late spring and there were no hot air updrafts to sustain his
flight, there was a Bavarian emperor present. So he did it anyway
and subsequently plummeted straight into the Danube River. A saying
developed out of this historical experience—loosely translated
into English:
The Ulm tailor
attempted to fly on a whim,
But the devil led him
into the Danube to swim.
Although his good name was finally
vindicated in 1986 (175 years later) when someone flew across the
river in a reproduction of Berblinger's design, he is still looked
on as a failure. To my knowledge, there's no record of him
attempting it again.
I used to think good attitudes were
just for those people who were happy and nice all the time. God made
them that way—they were wired to be happy! Some of you who know me
may be surprised to find out that I'm kind of a critical
thinker/melancholy kind of a guy, so self-help books on this subject
really haven't scratched me where I itch. One writer wrote that he
was convinced that life is 10 percent what happens to him and 90
percent how he reacts to it. In my cynicism, all I can say is he
must lead a very safe and secure life.
Keeping a stiff upper lip in the
midst of a difficult situation can be very challenging. For example,
- Continuing to work well when a
coworker misstates something in front of the boss that makes you
look bad
- Extending grace to a spouse who
continues to lie to you
- Trying to respect a parent or
teacher who appears not to understand you (or not care)
- Facing a medical decision that
could radically change your life or the life of a loved one
- Watching your children go through
hard times with peers at school
- Accepting a fellow Christian who
defines life differently than you do
These are all difficult challenges—some
more serious than others.
So how are we as Christians supposed
to respond to life's challenges? How do we rise above the
difficulties? How do we get ourselves off the ground and into orbit
with a winning attitude?
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The New Testament of the Bible is
made up of a few biographies about Jesus and several letters written
by early church fathers to both individuals and to churches. One
such letter was written by the Apostle Paul while he was in prison
for preaching the message of Jesus Christ (possibly in Rome). Paul
apparently thought well of the people in the church at Philippi,
because he laces his letter with phrases such as
- I thank my God every time I
remember you
- You are partners with me in grace
- You provided for my needs twice
- All the saints, especially those
of the emperor's household, greet you
Although Paul may have been under a
type of house-arrestm, as opposed to lying in a dungeon, he also
knew that he could die as a result of his imprisonment. His letter
of encouragement to the Philippians is still to this day a letter of
encouragement to us. In Philippians 2:1–2, he says, "Is
there any encouragement from belonging to Christ? Any comfort from
his love? Any fellowship together in the Spirit? Are your hearts
tender and sympathetic? Then make me truly happy by agreeing
wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working
together with one heart and purpose."
There's no indication that the church
members were fighting or quarreling with each other, no indication
that they were having difficulties in their jobs or in their homes.
Nevertheless, he apparently could see the proverbial writing on the
wall. It's like what happens in just doing life, such challenges
would come, and he was encouraging them to continue loving each
other and working together for the cause of Christ so that when
those difficult times did arise, they could be worked out properly.
In Philippians 3–4, Paul gets a
little more specific in his instruction, "Don't
be selfish; don't live to make a good impression on others. Be
humble, thinking of others as better than yourself. Don't think only
about your own affairs, but be interested in others, too, and what
they are doing."
Take a moment and think of a person
you admire. It could be another student or another mother/father, or
a fellow worker, etc. Now ask yourself these questions:
- Do they only think of themselves?
- Or do they express interest in
your life as well?
- Do they spend time and money on
trying to impress others?
- Does their conversation consist
only of their own exploits?
- Or do they stop and sincerely ask
your opinion on a subject?
Chances are, these people make you
feel cared for, wanted, worth something.
The person Paul is describing here is
a servant—someone who gives to others—a person who is humble,
not self-centered. He is saying to us today, "Look at the ones
around you—in your home, in your classes, at your job, in your
church. Care for others, not just for your own concerns. Even go so
far as to consider others to be more important than yourself!"
This is very radical, and makes us quite vulnerable in some cases.
Paul adds credence to his
instructions by referring to Jesus as this model servant in
Philippians 5, "Your
attitude should be the same that Christ Jesus had."
The actual text has more of a flavor
of continuation: "Keep on thinking in the same attitude that
Christ had when he was on this earth." Our example is Jesus
himself. If we want to know how to get going on a winning attitude,
if we want to know how to get off the ground and into orbit, we need
to look to Him for our example. Of course, just like Paul, it may
cost you something.
At this point in prison, Paul seems
to pause in his letter. In what seems to be a reflective moment, he
quotes in Philippians 6–8 what we understand to be an early
Christian hymn, "Though
he was God, he did not demand and cling to his rights as God. He
made himself nothing; he took the humble position of a slave and
appeared in human form. And in human form he obediently humbled
himself even further by dying a criminal's death on a cross."
Pascal, a French scientist who lived
a few centuries ago, is known to have stated these truths in the
form of a logical argument:
- God is totally good, but we have
made bad choices.
- Because we sinned, we should
rightly pay for our own failures.
- But only a perfect God can pay
completely for these sins.
- Therefore, we need a perfect
God-Man who can pay for those sins. That person is Jesus Christ.
The winning attitude that Jesus
displayed was one of humility, one of servanthood. He did not demand
his rights, but allowed himself to suffer for our sake. And might I
state, Jesus suffered without complaint, without anger. If we find
ourselves serving and then getting angry about it, we are not
displaying the attitude of Christ.
Philippians 9–11 finish off the
hymn in response to Christ's sacrificial love, "Because
of this, God raised him up to the heights of heaven and gave him a
name that is above every other name, so that at the name of Jesus
every knee will bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and
every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of
God the Father."
Let's not be like my distant
relative (the tailor who fell into the Danube) and become noted for
failing to get into orbit. We need to keep in mind what Paul says
later in his letter (Philippians 4:13,) "I can do all things
through Christ who strengthens me." If you want to be the
best husband, the best wife, son, daughter, student, teacher,
worker, or boss you can be, pursue an attitude of true humility—that
of Christ. Let your attitude on life and all that it entails be like
that of Jesus. He could have demanded all the courtesy shown to a
deity, but he didn't take for granted his position. Instead, he
humbled himself to the point of suffering for our sakes.
Let us remember God and all that he
did for us through Jesus Christ. Let us bow our knees and our hearts
to God and pray,
God, please help us
with our attitudes.
Help us to get off the
ground and into orbit.
Help us make this year
a Jesus-focused year.
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