Lost and Stressed
By Tim Ferrill
Statistics show that Americans are some of the most stress filled
and stressed out people on the planet. One would think the opposite
would be true with all the technical advances, medical achievements,
and common everyday luxuries we use on an everyday basis, but it is
not. Americans are some of the most up-tight, grumpy people in the
world.
What is Stress?
Stress is our emotional, psychological, and physical response
and reaction to the situations and circumstances we face in
life. Stress is not the real problem. Stress is merely a symptom
of the deeper problems within a person’s life.
Someone sent me this letter not to long ago that said: "I
have recently been diagnosed with AAADD, Age Activated Attention
Deficit Disorder. See if you can relate:
I decided to work on the car, started to the garage and
noticed the mail on the table. Okay, I am going to go work on
the car, but first I am going to go through the mail. I laid my
car keys down on the desk. After discarding the junk mail I
noticed that the trash can was full. Okay, I’ll just put the
bills on my desk, but first I’ll take the trash out. But since
I am going to be near the mailbox, I’ll address a few bills.
Yeah, now where is the checkbook? Oh, there’s only one check
left. Where did I put those extra checks? Oh, there is my empty
plastic cup from last night on my desk. I’m going to go look
for those checks, but first I need to put the cup back in the
kitchen.
I headed for the kitchen, looked out the window and noticed
the flowers needed a drink of water. I put the cup on the
counter and there was my extra pair of glasses on the kitchen
counter. What are they doing here? I’ll just go put them away.
But first I need to water those plants. I headed for the door
and—oh, someone has left the TV remote in the wrong spot.
Okay, I’ll put the remote away and water the plants, but first
I need to find those checks.
At the end of the day: the bills were still unpaid, cup was
still in the sink, checkbook still has only one check left and I
lost my car keys! And when I try to figure out how come nothing
got done today I am baffled because I knew I was busy!"
What are some CAUSES of Stress?
- Physical: illness, weight gain, weight loss
- Relationships: family, friends, co-workers, neighbors,
classmates, death
- Work: expectations, deadlines, goals
- Change: career, divorce, marriage, move, salary, jobs
- Future or Past: the fear of the unknown or the fear of the known
What are some CARNAL ways of Coping with Stress?
- Drugs and Alcohol: abuse
- Entertainment: movies, music, TV in excess
- Internet: addiction and acting
- Pornography: #1 addiction in the world
- Eating Disorders: anorexia or bulimia
- Avoidance: ignoring or making light of
- Anger: outburst of physical or verbal violence
What are some CHRISTIAN ways of Coping with Stress?
- CALL out to God.
"Call out to me and I will answer you and show and tell you
great and unsearchable things you do not know." Jeremiah
33:3
"Be merciful to me, O Lord, for I am in distress; my eyes
grow weak with sorrow, my soul and my body with grief. My life is
consumed by anguish and my years by groaning; my strength fails
because of my affliction, and my bones grow weak." Psalm
31:9-10
"The news about Jesus spread all the more, so that crowds of
people came to hear Him and to be healed of their sicknesses. But
Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed." Luke
5:15-16
- CRY out to God.
"Hear my cry, O God; listen to
my prayer. From the ends of the earth I call to you, I call as my
heart grows faint; lead me to the rock that is higher than I."
Psalm 61:2
"Being in anguish, Jesus prayed more earnestly, and His
sweat was like drops of blood falling to the ground." Luke
22:44
- CAST out to God.
"Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for
you." 1 Peter 5:7
"Cast all your cares on God; that anchor holds."
Alfred, Lord Tennyson
5. What is God’s CURE for Stress?
"Now may the Lord of PEACE Himself give you PEACE at all
times and in every way." 2 Thessalonians 3:16
"PEACE I leave with you; my PEACE I give you. I do not give
to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do
not be afraid." John 14:27
"A heart at PEACE gives life to the body." Proverbs
14:30
"God will keep him in PEACE whose mind is steadfast on
Him." Isaiah 26:3
"Come to me, all you who are weak and heavy laden and I will
give you REST." Matthew 11:28
Comforting Scriptures on Stress:
"In the world you will have trouble. But take heart I have
OVERCOME the world." John 16:33
"My soul finds REST in God alone, my salvation comes from Him."
Psalm 62:1
"The Lord blesses His people with PEACE." Psalm
29:11
"Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I
am your God. I will STRENGTHEN you and HELP you; I will uphold you
with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10
"Be STILL and KNOW that I am God." Psalm 46:10
"May the PEACE of God, which transcends all understanding,
guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians
4:7
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