Mountaintop Mindsets: Don’t ___; Be Happy!
By Roger Pryor,
Heartland Community Church
What makes you happy? For Maria
Brunner, all it takes for her to be happy is her "lazy"
husband and "demanding"
children. Currently, she is spending time behind bars. You see, her
husband is unemployed and she supports the family by cleaning
houses. Recently, she found out that her husband had run up $5,000
worth of unpaid parking tickets. Because she is the owner of the
vehicle, she is responsible. Now, she is spending three months in a
German jail because her husband couldn’t come up with the money.
Maria’s reaction? "I’ve
had enough of scraping a living for the family … As long as I get
food and a hot shower every day, I don’t mind being sent to jail.
I can finally get some rest and relaxation." The police
reported that when they went to arrest her, "she
seemed really happy to see us…and repeatedly thanked us for
arresting her. While most people taken into custody hide their heads
in shame, Maria smiled and waved as she was driven off to jail."
What makes you happy? Jesus, in His
landmark sermon, gives us the answers for a life of joy. It’s a
cheerfulness that winks at adversity. It’s a joy that defies pain.
It’s a sacred delight in the middle of disappointment. It’s a
heavenly happiness or delight that withstands our circumstances.
This life of joy is found in eight promises Jesus made.
Each of Jesus’ statements
begins with the word "Blessed."
When I hear this word it’s typically in a religious context or
conversation. But the word Jesus used is not a religious term at
all. It was used as a normal part of everyday vocabulary—mostly as
an exclamation. Unfortunately, there’s not an English word that
fully translates the Greek word Jesus used.
The closest we can get are
English words like happy, enriched, joyful, delighted or blessed.
Eight times Jesus promises us a taste of heavenly delight,
enrichment and blessing. The shocking thing is that it doesn’t
come the same way that popular culture tries to get it. Our culture
says, "Blessed
are those who are self-made, for they are the masters of their
destinies. Blessed are those who never mourn, for their life will be
a bed of roses. Blessed are the aggressive, for they’ll get
whatever they want. Blessed are those who play by their own rules,
for they’ll answer to no one but themselves."
This is our culture’s prescription for happiness. But Jesus’
way is quite different. Let’s
look at eight ways we can taste God’s delight and enrichment.
1. Matthew
5:3: "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the
kingdom of heaven."
"Poor in
spirit" doesn’t refer to your overdrawn emotional bank
account. It describes how we are to approach God with absolute
dependency. It’s an attitude that says, "God,
without you I am absolutely nothing. I’m bankrupt without you. I’m
a nobody." Jesus says, "Way to go all of you
who realize your need of me. I’m giving you the Kingdom of Heaven.
Be dependent on Me!"
2. Matthew 5:4: "Blessed are those who
mourn, for they will be comforted."
Jesus is saying, "Happy are the sad." What a
contradiction! The way to God’s blessing, enrichment and happiness
is to mourn. Over what? To be deeply sad over your sin. It’s a
natural outflow of being poor in spirit. This term "mourning"
describes those who are mourning the dead. Until we swallow our
pride, stop making excuses and become as broken and deeply grieved
over our sin as God is, there can be no comfort or forgiveness from
Him.
For almost a year, Old Testament King David
refused to deal with God over his adultery and lies. It ate him
alive physically, emotionally, and spiritually. But
when David stripped away his pride and grieved/mourned over his sin,
God provided joy and enrichment to David through forgiveness.
David writes in Psalm 32:1–2, "Oh,
what joy for those whose rebellion is forgiven, whose sin is put out
of sight! Yes, what joy for those whose record the LORD has
cleared of sin, whose lives are lived in complete
honesty!" Be broken over your sin, and you’ll
experience God’s joy, enrichment and comfort.
3. Matthew 5:5: "Blessed
are the meek, for they will inherit the earth."
When I hear the word "meek," I think, "blessed
are the weak, spineless wimps of our world." But for
Jesus, meekness meant gentleness, tenderness, patience and
submission. But meekness is more than that. One summer during
college, I worked at a camp. My roommate was the camp wrangler and
often times I got "roped" into helping with
the horses. In other words, I got to scoop poop, feed, and brush
down the horses. In their stalls, they’d kick me, pin me against
the stall, step on my feet, and a few other unmentionables. They
loved me. But when I put on their bridle and bit, those mean horses
were docile enough for small children to ride on. Here was a
powerful animal, but its power was under control.
That’s the same picture Jesus had of
meekness. "Meek" describes a horse that has
been broken and trained—whose power is under control. Someone who
is meek is strong enough to be gentle, strong enough to be tender,
and yet, strong enough to be forceful when necessary.
God enriches those who do not let their power
or position go to their heads, but who instead surrender their power
to God for Him to use. To
be meek is to be submissive to God’s plan and allow God’s
power to work through you. The Apostle Paul described his own
personal meekness or power under control in Philippians 4:13, "For
I can do everything with the help of Christ who gives me the
strength I need."
4. Matthew 5:6: "Blessed are those who
hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled."
What is Jesus promising? When you continually have a deep hunger and
genuine thirst for doing life God’s way, you will be absolutely
satisfied. Hungering and thirsting shows a keen sense of longing for
something. That something is righteousness. That’s a big word that
means to be right with God. It doesn’t mean to be more religious,
but to grow deeper in your relationship with God. Over the next
eight weeks, Jesus will unpack for us what this right living with
God looks like. Jesus says, "be addicted to God,
and you’ll become more like Him and you’ll be blessed and
enriched."
5. Matthew 5:7: "Blessed are the
merciful, for they will be shown mercy."
Are you looking for God to enrich your life? Give others who have
hurt you a break. Let them off your hook. You may be right and they
may be wrong, but keep this in mind—when you show mercy to others,
you heap mercy upon yourself. The alternative is hatred, revenge and
bitterness.
Max Lucado says, "Hatred is the
rabid dog that turns on its owner. Revenge is the raging fire that
consumes the arsonist. Bitterness is the trap that snares the
hunter. And mercy is the choice that can set them all free."
Merciful people show more than compassion and sympathy—they come
to the rescue, reach out and help meet a need in a person’s life. Be
merciful and forgiving.
Jesus also said, 6. Matthew 5:8: "Blessed
are the pure in heart, for they will see God." In the
Bible the heart refers to the totality of the inner person—the
control tower, the cockpit, the mind. It’s the center of one’s
thoughts, reasoning, conscious, intentions, purpose and will.
A pure heart is one that has been cleaned or
purged or purified from filth. Your heart may be filled with hatred
and selfishness and greed—it may be that way right now—but it
can be cleaned and made pure. 1 John 1: 9
tells us, "But if we confess our sins
to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from
every wrong."
And when your heart is pure, Jesus says you will see God. You’ll
sense His presence. You’ll see Him with a spiritual eye—you’ll
see Him at work in and around you. Looking to be blessed and
enriched by God? Be cleaned up.
Jesus also said, 7. Matthew 5:9: "Blessed
are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God."
God promises to enrich those who are His agents of peace.
Peacemakers do more than stop conflicts; they conquer the problem—
by resolving differences through building bridges between enemies.
Truth is expressed, the issue is settled, and the two parties
embrace.
As a result of bridge building,
you will be called one of the "sons
of God." God
will enrich and bless you with the dignity and honor of being one of
His children. He will meet your needs; shield you from danger;
reveal His truth; forgive you, and give you heaven. Blessed are the
peacemakers. Want to experience the taste of heavenly delight? Be
a bridge builder.
To be a peacemaker, you must
experience God’s peace personally. God is the ultimate peacemaker.
He sent His Son, Jesus, into the world to repair the broken-down
moral bridge that your sin caused. The bridge was the cross on which
Jesus died to pay the penalty for our sins. Colossians 1:20 says, "He
(Jesus) made peace with everything in heaven and on earth by means
of his blood on the cross." At this
very moment you can trust Jesus as your Savior by being broken over
your sin and placing your trust in Jesus as your Savior.
8. Matt.
5:10–12: "Blessed are those who
are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom
of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and
falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and
be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way
they persecuted the prophets who were before you."
Jesus says there will be times when you will
be mistreated or harassed simply because you belong to Him and
choose to live His way of life. You’ll be chased out of groups;
friends will say unkind words; you’ll be laughed at; gossiped
about; overlooked for a promotion; excluded from the inner circle;
and even taken advantage of or rejected by your peers. But when you
are, this puts you in good company with God’s people and His
prophets throughout history.
Jesus says, "When you’re
harassed, be faithful to Me—willingly take a stand for Me
and don’t cave in. Instead "rejoice and be glad, because
great is your reward in heaven…" It’s through the lens
of our awesome home in heaven that we can stand faithful for God
with an attitude of joy.
There you have it—eight steps to
tasting God’s blessing, enrichment and delight in this life. Be
Dependent on God! Be Broken over your sin! Be Submissive to God’s
plan! Be Addicted to your relationship with God! Be Merciful and
Forgiving to others! Be Cleaned up from your sin! Be a Bridge
Builder! Be Faithful To God when life is tough!
Obviously, there is no way we can
implement all eight steps at one time. Here’s my challenge. Look
over the list of eight steps and choose one to work on. And then
write what your action plan will be, starting today. When you’re
done tell someone close to you what you’re going to do.
Doug Whitt and his bride, Sylvia,
were escorted to their hotel’s fancy bridal suite late one night.
In the suite they saw a sofa, chairs, and a table, but where was the
bed? Then they discovered the sofa was a hide-a-bed, with a lumpy
mattress and sagging springs. They tossed and turned all night and
woke up with sore backs.
Early the next morning, the new
husband went down to the hotel desk and complained. The clerk asked
whether the husband had opened the other door in the room. Doug went
back up to the room, and opened the door they thought was a closet.
There, complete with fruit baskets and chocolates, was a beautiful
bedroom. Opening all the doors in a honeymoon suite is like obeying
these eight steps so that you can experience a life of delight,
blessing, joy and enrichment from God. What are you waiting for?
Open the closet door and experience the incredible life God has for
you—a taste of God’s heavenly delight! Work your action plan!
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