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Shrek-onalties
- Keep It Between The Lines
Roger
Pryor—April 29, 2007
We
look at the DISC chart,
C’s tend to emphasize
tasks and results over ideas
and people. They like to
work alone and maintain the
status quo. C’s tend to do
the right thing. They’re
competent, calculating, and
cautious. They’ve been
known to proof-read their
Xerox copies. Their target
practice slogan is: ready,
aim, aim, aim… Let’s do
a quick review by looking at
the 4 quadrant grid and see
how C’s fit with the other
types.
D’s
prefer tasks to people and
tend to be more active than
passive in relating to their
circumstances. If they
don’t like their
circumstances, they’ll
change them. The opposite of
a "D" is the
"S". They usually
prefer people to tasks, and
they tend to be more passive
than active in relating to
the world around them. If
they don’t like their
circumstances, they won’t
necessarily change them,
they’ll just adapt to
them.
C
personalities share some
characteristics of both the
D’s and S’s types. Like
D’s, they naturally
gravitate towards tasks
instead of relationships.
Like S’s, they are passive
in their approach to the
world around them, but when
it comes to change they
don’t adapt well.
C’s
prefer status quo.
"Variety" is a
dangerous word for them. And
yet, C’s can affect change
by appealing to logic and
correctness. They will tell
others, "Do it the
right way and, by the way,
I’ve already done the
research as to what is the
right way…here it
is."
This
is probably the greatest
strength of a C. #1.
C’s are conscientious
about doing the right thing.
They have a high sense of
justice. Their battle cry is
"if it’s worth doing,
it’s worth doing
right." They demand to
know where the lines are and
then work hard to stay
between them. Their high
standards of doing things
right, produce many other
admirable qualities.
For
instance, #2. C
personalities tend to be
great at researching and
discovering answers.
They love to solve problems
by doing their homework,
researching the facts,
developing an action plan,
and making it happen. They
drool and slobber over
instruction manuals. Their
heart skips a beat when the
Consumer Report magazine
arrives. They are great
troubleshooters.
Maybe
you’ve heard the story of
Aunt Dovie—as she was
nicknamed. She was a
supervisor at the GM Allison
Division in Indianapolis
where the engine for the
P-51 fighter plane was
manufactured during WW2.
Somehow, though, when the
new pistons arrived overseas
they were defective, riddled
with tiny holes.
Immediately, everyone
suspected a Nazi saboteur
had infiltrated the Allison
Division. While undercover
agents looked for the spy,
Aunt Dovie—a C personality
began to troubleshoot the
problem. And she uncovered
the spy. It was a vending
machine. Workers were buying
and eating handfuls of
peanuts and going back to
work without washing their
hands. It was the salt from
their fingers that was
eating away the silver
platting.
So
if you need research and
answers…ask a
"C". #3. Next,
C personalities typically
have a knack for
organization and efficiency.
They can look at almost any
process and know how it
could be better organized
and done more efficiently.
If something isn’t running
smoothly, a C will most
likely be able to tell you
why because they see
important details that
others overlook.
#4.
The life and work of a C is
often marked by excellence
and even brilliance.
Did you know that most of
the great artists in the
world are C’s? Most of the
geniuses down through the
years have been C’s. For
instance the great inventor
Thomas Edison (a C) tried
over 2,000 times to invent
the incandescent light bulb.
When asked if he ever got
discouraged, he said,
"Not at all, for I know
for sure 2,000 ways it would
not work." Later, he
invented the light bulb.
These
unique strengths, though,
become a handicap when they
are taken to an extreme. The
greatest crisis a C
personality confronts is
(and I quote) "their
inner world is often filled
with emotional turmoil
because they cannot help but
notice the shortcomings in
their circumstances, in the
people around them, and in
themselves."
They
struggle with those who play
outside the lines. When
others are not
conscientious, they knit
pick and criticize. Because
C’s must ask the
"why" question
over and over, they come
across as judgmental. Their
ability to research can turn
themselves into intellectual
snobs. Their drive for
efficiency and excellence
can create unreasonable
expectations that no one can
live up to. Eventually, they
become whiners with critical
spirits and bad attitudes.
The
good news is that C’s
don’t have to be slaves to
these negative
characteristics. God can
work within the framework of
their inborn personalities
to shape them into the
character of Jesus. That’s
God’s goal for every
Christ follower—to produce
character fruit that’s not
natural to our personality.
This character fruit is
described for us in
Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT) When
the Holy Spirit controls our
lives, he will produce this kind
of fruit in our lives: love,
joy, peace, patience,
kindness, goodness,
faithfulness, gentleness,
and self-control.
All
of us need to grow in every
one of these nine character
qualities. But for those of
you who are C’s, there are
two that jump out as being
desperately needed if you
want to maximize your
personality: they are joy
and peace. If you’re a
follower of Christ with C
tendencies, these two are
probably where God will do
the most work in your
character.
Why
do C’s need joy and peace?
C personalities are often
overwhelmed by the
shortcomings of others,
leading to a life of misery
and negative thinking. Too
often they see things from a
negative, critical, and
condemning perspective.
C’s tend to see the wrong,
rather than the right in
situations and people. The
great theologian Steve
Martin said, "Before
you criticize a man, walk a
mile in his shoes. That way,
when you do criticize him,
you'll be a mile away and
have his shoes."
So
what a C needs is a big dose
of: #1. Joy. Joy is
defined as the
"cheerfulness of heart
that comes from experiencing
God’s presence." Now
joy is different from
happiness. Happiness is
based on the situations we
find ourselves in at any
given moment. Joy isn’t
dependent on circumstances.
It wells up within us when
we see our lives from
God’s perspective and
sense His presence. Psalm
16:11 (NASB) In Your
presence is fullness of joy.
In Your right hand are
pleasures forever. We
need to see God at work in
our lives if we’re going
to experience joy.
#2.
A second virtue God wants to
develop in a C is peace.
This word peace means
"tranquility of heart
that comes from knowing
we’re in God’s
hands." In first
century times, it meant the
serenity or public peace a
country enjoyed under the
rule of a good emperor.
For
Christ followers, we are
under the government of the
ultimate good emperor—the
emperor of the universe. And
even though there is
disorder and chaos
everywhere, there can be
order or peace in our
"village"—because
we’re in God’s
hands—we’re under His
control.
Jesus
told his followers: John
16:33 (NIV) "I have
told you these things, so
that in me you may have
peace. In this world you
will have trouble. (things
won’t be perfect)
But take heart! I have
overcome the world."
"I am large and in
charge. And I will bring
order out of chaos. Trust
me."
So
what are some action steps
we can take to open
ourselves up to the
influence of God’s Holy
Spirit and experience joy
and peace even when life has
dealt us a bad hand?
#1.
Look Up in worship
and celebration.
By engaging in the greatness
and goodness of God, we will
develop joy. Philippians 4:8
(TLB) Fix your thoughts
on what is true and good and
right. Think about things
that are pure and lovely,
and dwell on the fine, good
things in others. Think
about all you can praise God
for and be glad about.
#2.
Lighten Up on
yourself.
Perfection is impossible.
Give yourself permission to
have planned imperfections
where you draw a line and
say, "that’s good
enough or that’s close
enough." Sometimes the
house doesn’t need to be
spotless. Sometimes the
project is complete enough.
Be less rigid and more
flexible. The world won’t
come to an end. And God and
people will love you anyway.
So lighten up on yourself so
you can learn joy and peace.
#3.
Loosen Up on others.
Too often C’s push their
perfectionism standards onto
others and hold them to
standards that they can
never reach. The most
realistic expectation you
can have of others is two
words: people fail.
People make dumb decisions.
They do evil things. They
break their promises. They
mess up. Now, I’m not
asking you C’s to lower
your standards, I’m just
asking you to make
allowances for the humanness
of others. Loosen up. Stop
demanding perfection from
others. So look up, lighten
up, and loosen up so you can
be an open channel for God,
the Holy Spirit to transform
you and make you more like
Jesus.
More
than any other personality,
those of you who are C’s
are very aware of your own
shortcomings and failures.
It’s usually hard for a C
to believe that someone like
Jesus would actually pay the
penalty for his or her
sinfulness. But it’s true.
Christianity is not about
earning your way to heaven
through perfection or super
human effort. It’s been
done for you through
Jesus’ death on the cross.
But you must trust Jesus as
your Savior, and not
yourself for heaven.
The
Bible puts it this way.
Romans 5:8 (NIV) But God
demonstrates his own love
for us in this: While we
were still sinners, Christ
died for us. Some of us
still need to experience
that love for the first
time. If you are ready to
receive that love, say this
prayer that expresses your
decision to trust Jesus as
your Savior.
Expressing
My Decision To Trust Jesus
As My Savior
Dear
God, I admit that I’m a
sinner and I understand that
my sin separates me from
you. I believe that Jesus,
being God, paid the penalty
for my sins when He died on
the cross. I now choose to
trust Him as my Savior.
Thank you for loving and
forgiving me and for giving
me the gift of eternal life.
In Jesus’ name, amen
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